Domestic violence or domestic abuse can be defined as "Any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality."
Whatever form the abuse takes, it is rarely a one-off incident and should instead be seen as a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviour through which the abuser seeks power over their victim.
If left unchallenged, abuse can become more frequent and severe.
Family members are defined as mother, father, son, daughter, brother, sister and grandparents, whether directly related, in-laws or step family.
If you answer yes to any of the above, you may be living with abuse.
If you are in a violent or abusive relationship or if you know or are supporting somebody in that situation, don’t suffer in silence, help is available from the agencies listed below:
For emergencies call the Police by dialling 999, they will respond, investigate and assist you.
For non-emergency numbers call 101.
The National Domestic Violence Helpline Number can be reached on (FREEPHONE) 0808 2000 247. This is a 24-hour service.
People with concerns about their partner’s history are able to request background information from Suffolk police.
The aim of this scheme is to give you a formal mechanism to make inquiries about your partner if you are worried that they may have been abusive in the past.
An application can only be made by contacting the police: